While Maitland lives in a region of Scotland with one of the lowest population densities in Europe, where the nearest supermarket is more than twenty miles away and there is no cell service (pause on that for a moment), she wasn’t always a loner - she grew up in a big, close-knit family as one of six children.
#An antidote to how to#
That paradox is what British author Sara Maitland explores in How to Be Alone ( public library) - the latest installment in The School of Life’s thoughtful crusade to reclaim the traditional self-help genre in a series of intelligent, non-self-helpy yet immeasurably helpful guides to such aspects of modern living as finding fulfilling work, cultivating a healthier relationship with sex, worrying less about money, and staying sane.
#An antidote to full#
It is also a capacity absolutely essential for a full life. Solitude, the kind we elect ourselves, is met with judgement and enslaved by stigma. (It’s worth noting that this unsettling incident, which is as much about the stigma of being single as about the profound failure to honor the art of being alone, is one women are still far more likely to confront than men some live to tell about it.) Photograph by Maria Popova Upon realizing she was to dine alone, the waitstaff escorted her to the back with a blend of puzzlement and pity, so as not to dilute the resort’s carefully engineered illusory landscape of coupled bliss. Hemingway’s famous assertion that solitude is essential for creative work is perhaps so oft-cited precisely because it is so radical and unnerving in its proposition.Ī friend recently relayed an illustrative anecdote: One evening during a short retreat in Mexico by herself, she entered the local restaurant and asked to be seated. And yet that choice is one our culture treats with equal parts apprehension and contempt, particularly in our age of fetishistic connectivity.
The moral of the story's this: those academics weren't alone.If the odds of finding one’s soul mate are so dreadfully dismal and the secret of lasting love is largely a matter of concession, is it any wonder that a growing number of people choose to go solo? The choice of solitude, of active aloneness, has relevance not only to romance but to all human bonds - even Emerson, perhaps the most eloquent champion of friendship in the English language, lived a significant portion of his life in active solitude, the very state that enabled him to produce his enduring essays and journals. He looked up and, through a window, saw himself shaking his head. He looked around for his colleague and suddenly he saw Professor Peter Probersite lay dead upon the floor. "An antidote to cloning - I thought this might be useful" said Doctor Darren Dedicoat. The clones upon the stairs were first to fall as the gas struck them and down below their fellow clones soon joined them in the fallen. He smashed it and, in tears, shouted "God forgive what I do today!" He dashed upstair to a room where a sealed beaker was displayed.
"All right" said Dedicoat "it's time to end this where it started" "We're scientists", said Probersite, "Philosophy be blasted!" "But do I have the right?" he pondered as the first wave of clones drew near. "We're doomed" they screamed, then suddenly Darren had an idea. Somehow the lab door had been locked - their plan to flee, aborted. "Run", they yelled, in unison but their escape was thwarted. Smashing out of their test tubes the Army of clones wake up and with a look of violence they march upon their maker. The Prof said, "Hang on, is it me or do those clones look angry?" And look in here, there's thousands more.
"Why no, this is the 59th," said Darren, "I was in a hurry. "I hope this is a prototype," he muttered, looking worried. Professor Peter Probersite could not believe what he was seeing. "Behold, I've made a perfect clone - a replica human being" What's the reason? This is.ĭoctor Darren Dedicoat of the Genetics Department was showing him the results of his new experiment. Professor Peter Probersite, Professor of Space Physics, looked askance at his colleague.
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